Flirting for Queer, Pan & Bi Kinksters
A workshop and mixer.

Sat, Aug 25 from 5pm - 8pm

  • 18+
$43.47 with fees
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Solo & Pay It Forward Donor
$54.09 with fees
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Flirting is a form of human interaction that can be used for many reasons: making people feel good, expressing or gauging sexual or romantic interest, adding levity, or expressing affection. There are many different styles of flirting, almost as varied as each person’s personality. Add in an interest, such as Kink, and you have another layer of complexity that gives even more opportunity for creativity.

In this interactive class, Lala and Allena will share all the elements that make up flirting, and help you find your own style. Discuss and practice elements of consent, context, body language, tone of voice, and timing with other attendees, meeting new people and strengthening your flirting muscles.

All sexes, genders, races, ethnicities, sexual orientations, relationship orientations, religions are welcome and celebrated.
Cost at the door: $50.
Tickets include light refreshments and beverages.
Scholarships are available. Email for info.
No late entry will be allowed due to the intimate nature of this workshop. Doors will be locked at 10 minutes after the start time.
Attendance is limited to 30 people.

About the Educators:

La La Lipsy is a professional Lifestyle Consultant who has been a Sensualist and a Kink "Light" enthusiast for quite some time. Relatively new to the Seattle Kink scene, she is an educator who loves sharing information and helping people experience pleasure in new ways. She works with couples and single people who want to re-connect through sensual ambiance, touch and sexuality. She loves when people are open and enthusiastic about making their sexy time fun and exciting.

Allena Gabosch has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its inception; producing educational and social events since 1990. She is an internationally reknown educator and expert on many sexuality related subjects, with an emphasis on BDSM and Polyamory, at colleges and conferences, and has been quoted in magazines and documentaries.

She is a former Executive Director of the Center and Foundation for Sex Positive Culture, former Producer of the Seattle Erotic Art Festival, former board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and a former commissioner with the Seattle Commission for Sexual Minorities. She is currently working on several books, including one on Sex Positive Culture. She is a kinky sapiosexual, solo polyamorous switch and considers herself extremely blessed with many amazing and loving people in her "polycule".

Her personal mission statement is to bring Joy to sexuality and to make a difference in the world. Her Blog is Her coaching website is . Follow her on Twitter @Ladysun333

This event is presented by the Pan Eros Foundation. Please go to for more information.

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