Max Presents Constructing Successful D/S Scenes

Tue, Apr 19, 2022 from 6pm - 8pm (Pacific)

  • 18+
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Perhaps you've witnessed a D/S scene where energy and intention radiate from the individuals taking part. Where the emotional connection is so deep, and the dance between authority and surrender is so palpable, you feel as though you're intruding.

It seems effortless, as if the scene somehow "just happened".  We know that's not the case though - successful D/S encounters take skill, effort, and thoughtfulness. The good news is that all of this can be learned.

All parties in a scene have a role to play, and all parties have responsibilities.  We'll lay this out in ways that help both the dominant and the submissive contribute to the scene and its success.

We play with power because it's transformative, sexy, fun, and potent. Join us to learn more about D/S scenes, and to get better at making these experiences deep and satisfying.

* Workshop structure

Scenes are like stories. We'll start off analyzing the narrative arc of a D/S scene, breaking down the components, from consent and negotiation, through the meat of the scene, and finally the finish and the aftercare involved. Breaking the scene into components makes it easier to get started and easier to keep it going.

This workshop provides the tools you need to create your own successful D/S scenes - building your skill sets, strengthening your communication skills, and bolstering your self-confidence. Whether you're looking for 24x7 D/S or a sexy date, there's something here you can use.

We'll talk about stumbling blocks, opportunities, and potential problems. Attendees will learn how to avoid - and recover from - common D/S scene mistakes.

This workshop will be filled with demos, lecture, some easy exercises, and lots of time for discussion and Q&A. As with all of Max's workshops, a handout will be provided to facilitate your learning and retention.

This is part of an ongoing D/S series, offered on the 3rd Tuesday of the month.

* Who should attend?

This workshop assumes no previous BDSM experience, and is appropriate for all genders, all orientations, and for both tops and bottoms.

You do not need to be partnered - or have a partner at the workshop - to benefit from this event.

* Afterwards

Attendees will receive a handout full of principles, safety information, basic technique, and resources.

Max also offers private coaching. These sessions are completely customized to meet your needs and desires. Contact Max to discuss these offerings.

* Cancellation / refund policy

If you cancel your registration up to 2 days before the event you will receive a full refund.

* About Max

Max has been active in Seattle's kink community since 1992 and has been teaching bondage, BDSM, and polyamory workshops since 1999.

While he is proficient with a wide range of BDSM skills, Max especially enjoys the intimacy of rope bondage and the intensity of the singletail. Max projects a gentle, dominant energy, and all of his relationships - and most of his scenes - include a substantial D/S component.

Max's love of teaching shines through his workshops, and his love for people informs his personal encounters.


Seattle, WA