Max and Lover's Lair Present Start Using That Singletail!

Wed, Apr 26 from 7pm - 10pm (Pacific)

  • 18+
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Singletail whips have a powerful mystique and deliver a powerful experience. They manage to be beautiful, delicate, and savage, all at once.

This workshop focuses on the most common whips used for BDSM - 3' and 4' signal whips.

It's specifically designed for the beginner who's considering a whip purchase or who has a whip and hasn't used it much.

Workshop structure

Max will cover

  • Whip construction
  • Where to hit / where not to hit
  • Warming up your whip / warming up your bottom
  • Basic technique
  • What to buy and where to buy it

This is a very hands-on class.  After the introductory material, we'll spend most of our time throwing the whips. If you'd rather just watch and listen, that's OK too. 

Bring a leather jacket for whoever will be hit by the whip.  We will be practicing, NOT doing scenes, and we'll use the leather jackets to moderate the sensation created by the whip's impact so you can focus on learning basic technique without worrying about hurting your bottom.

What to bring:

  • Your whip, if you have one
  • A practice partner, if you have one (if not, there will still be plenty of opportunities to practice.)
  • A leather jacket

Who should attend?

No prior experience throwing whips is assumed for this class - it's specifically designed for beginners.

This workshop assumes no previous BDSM experience and is appropriate for all genders, all orientations, and for both tops and bottoms.

Since much of the workshop is hands-on practice, bringing a practice partner is helpful.  Don't hesitate to come alone though - there will be plenty of opportunities to practice alone, and we'll facilitate ad-hoc practice opportunities.


Attendees will receive a handout full of principles, safety information, basic technique, and resources.

Attendees also receive a 20% discount coupon for purchases at Lover's Lair. Lovers Lair has a great selection of singletail whips, and your 20% discount is a substantial savings on an item that will last for years.

Max also offers private coaching to help you build your skill as a top or a bottom. These sessions are completely customized to meet your needs and desires. Contact Max to discuss these offerings.

Cancellation / refund policy

If you cancel your registration up to 2 days before the event you will receive a full refund.

If we cancel the event you will receive a 100% refund, to include ticketing fees.


  • No smoking or vaping inside.
  • Refrain from wearing perfumes, oils, and scented products as some of us are chemically sensitive.

COVID protocols

We are navigating the current guidelines and our own sense of safety and reasonableness. The protocol for this event is based on our own research and risk assessment; we encourage you to do the same before you purchase your ticket.

There is no vaccination requirement for this event. Max is vaccinated and boosted and recommends that you be vaccinated to reduce the severity of your illness if you get sick. Unvaccinated people 12 and older are 17 times as likely to die from Covid as vaccinated and boosted people.


Masks will not be required. You may, of course, wear a mask if you wish.

Please do not attend if you are exhibiting COVID symptoms or you are exposed to someone who has tested positive in the 14 days before the event.

Testing before attending events is a good way to protect each other. Max tests before each event. If you can, please test before you come to class.

Thank you for helping to keep us all safe.

About Max

Max has been active in Seattle's kink community since 1992 and has taught workshops and offered private coaching since 1999. He is nourished and guided by his strong roots in the kink, queer, leather and poly communities.

Max weaves his BDSM practice into his life because it's an especially effective way to build intimacy. The level of trust, communication, and active consent required for this practice creates beautiful, powerful experiences, and deep relationships.

Max has spent a lifetime building a range of skills, to include the intimacy of rope bondage, the intensity of the singletail, the connection of erotic hypnosis, and the power of authority-transfer (D/S) relationships.

Max is always the consummate professional - competent, attentive, passionate, respectful, and empathetic. He loves what he does and is grateful for opportunities to help others explore kink and find deeper connection.

Lover's Lair

4001 198th Street SW
Lynnwood, WA 98036