How to Build a Scene: Tips for Beginners

Sun, Aug 18 from 1pm - 2pm

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New to playing and unsure where to start? Have some exciting, kinky ideas you’re dying to explore and just need some guidance? This informative presentation will go over the basics of establishing and executing a scene successfully, from introducing your ideas to a potential partner to aftercare and post-scene debriefing. We will also talk about books and online resources you can read through at your own pace.

Important Information:

  • Pay-what-you-can scholarships are available for all Pan Eros Foundation workshops. If you need financial assistance, please email Leah at
  • No late entry will be allowed due to the intimate nature of this workshop. Doors will be locked at 10 minutes after the start time.
  • Water available. Please bring your own cup or bottle.
  • Open to all 18+
  • All sexes, genders, races, ethnicities, bodies, body types, sexual orientations, relationship orientations, abilities welcome and celebrated.
  • Please let us know by email if you have any access needs or things that would aid in your learning.
  • Questions may be directed to:

About the Educator:

Nyx (she/her) is a lesbian impact top and lover of canes and bare butts–especially at the same time! She became active in kink in Milwaukee, WI in 2010 and has been reading, studying, playing, and/or ranting about it ever since. Nyx began her work at the Tool Shed in Milwaukee where she shares their mission of providing medically accurate and socially current information on topics of sex and gender in a non-judgmental atmosphere to anyone who visits the store. She has presented at the University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh, Antioch College in Seattle, and most recently with Fetish Finishing Academy with Pan Eros Foundation.


This event is presented by the Pan Eros Foundation. Please go to for more information.

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