Tanya and Max Present Unveiling Desire: A Salon Series
Fri, Oct 23 from 7pm - 9:30pm (Pacific)
- 18+
Relationships often feel like a balancing act. On the one hand, we want to feel safe, known, and secure. On the other, we still need that spark of excitement and discovery. How do we keep our foundation solid while still making room for new experiences?
We invite you to explore the "third space"—that middle ground where we can be curious about each other instead of jumping to conclusions. This salon series is designed specifically for people who are just starting to look into open relationships, polyamory, or the world of kink and BDSM. It is a warm, supportive space for the curious, the brave, and even those who feel a little bit nervous about it all.
The Power of the Collective: We don't learn who we are all by ourselves; we learn through our connections with others. Come join us as we build a community of support, resources, and shared learning. Let's see what's possible when we decide to branch out together.
Event format
Doors open at 6:30, 30 minutes before the event, so you can check in and get settled.
Each evening is a mix of guided talk and group sharing, led by two long-time teachers who have spent years helping people navigate these new ways of relating. We'll all contribute to the honest conversation - and you'll never be pressured into sharing or participating in any way that doesn't feel good to you.
We'll provide some light snacks.
Who should attend?
No prior experience is assumed for this class - it's perfectly appropriate for everyone.
You may attend alone or with a partner. Please buy a ticket for each attendee.
Afterwards
We've scheduled three of these salons as follows:
- Wednesday, September 23rd
- Friday, October 23rd
- Wednesday, November 11th
if there's ongoing interest, we'll probably continue into the future.
Tanya and Max are also available for private coaching - please refer to the links in their bios for details.
Cancellation / refund policy
If you cancel your registration up to 2 days before the event you will receive a full refund.
If we cancel the event you will receive a 100% refund, to include ticketing fees.
Agreements
No smoking or vaping inside.
Refrain from wearing perfumes, oils, and scented products as some of us are chemically sensitive.
About Tanya
Tanya Brakeman, creator of Essential & Dynamic Relating, empowers individuals to articulate their soul’s longing and live their authentic truth. With a background in professional mediation, coaching, and relational work, she guides people toward deep, genuine connections. Her mission is to guide and inspire people to contribute powerfully with their whole, true selves in every arena of their lives.
https://www.essentialrelating.com
About Max
Max has been active in Seattle's poly and kink communities since 1992 and has offered instruction and private coaching since 1999. Max weaves BDSM into his life because it's an especially effective way to build intimacy. The level of trust, communication, and active consent required for this practice creates beautiful, powerful experiences, and deep relationships.


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