Find Your Fantasy
A Date Night Event based on a workshop with Stella Harris

Sat, Nov 24 from 7pm - 11pm

  • 18+
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Knowing what you want isn’t as easy as it sounds. Many people don’t even know what the options are, or have vague ideas about what appeals to them, but don’t have the language to express it. Especially when you’re new to the kink or sex positive scene, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed with choices.

In this class we’ll talk about ways to narrow down your desires from yes/no/maybe lists to explorations of common fantasies. We’ll also work through handouts and exercises that help us identify some of our early turn ons, and sensuality archetypes from the media, and we’ll use these seeds as a starting point for scenes you can create in real life.

Bring a partner and be ready to dive into shared and solo exercises, with extra time at the end to continue exploring and practicing what you’ve learned.

After a 2+ hour workshop, the remaining time is available for practice or socializing while enjoying refreshments and desserts. Admission includes dessert and light refreshments.

All sexes, genders, races, ethnicities, sexual orientations, relationship orientations, religions are welcome and celebrated.


Cost at the door: $85 (Duo)
No late entry will be allowed due to the intimate nature of this workshop. Doors will be locked at 15 minutes after the start time.
Water available. Please bring your own bottle or cup.
Attendance is limited to 14 duos.
Questions may be directed to: education@thefspc.org

About the Educator:

Stella Harris is an author, educator, and coach who focuses on intimacy and connection. As a certified Intimacy Educator, she uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. She has presented classes for a variety of organizations including the Portland Leather Alliance, the Portland Academy of Sex Ed, Sex Positive Portland, and more, and has spoken at Portland State University, Reed College, and Pacific University. Stella is widely published in print and online, from erotic fiction to educational and lifestyle pieces on sex and kink.

Stella hopes to build a world where everyone has the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. Learn more at www.stellaharris.net

This event is presented by the Pan Eros Foundation.


Gallery Erato

309 First Avenue South
Seattle, WA 98104

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